13 Ways to Support Your Partner When They're Unemployed
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Pause Before You React
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Keep Your Mouth Shut
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Avoid Making It Sound Like You're the Only One Supporting the Family
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Compliment What They're Doing Right
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Don't Sweat It If You Say Something Mean
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Help Them Find the Silver Lining
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Don't Push Your Partner Into a New Career
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Offer Up Your Help
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Combine Your Networks
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Find Your Own Confidante
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If You Do Need to Have a Tough Talk, Make It a "We" Conversation
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Jenny Depper
When your partner comes home and reveals the shocking news that they've been laid off, let go, fired, or any of the other terms for that big, ugly word "unemployed," it can be tricky to go into straight into supportive partner mode.
Most of our reactions are a mixture of sadness, anxiety, and a tiny bit of freaking out about how this might change your relationship, your financial security, and, well, your life. This is totally normal, but it's important to remember your partner is likely feeling way worse about the situation. Here's how you can help.